"Heartbreaks" Blessings In Disguise!

Once upon a time, love happened. Love happened to all of us. Almost all of us have been through this beautiful, absolute perfect feeling that God can bestow upon us. Love, probably has happened right from a tender age, has happened on the way leading life, or even when life was at the verge of ending its journey. Obviously depending on the various stages and circumstances life threw upon us. The point is, this love bee at one point of time has stung us all in our lives. It actually gives you the best of candid emotions your heart can toy with. It gives you the ride, the time of your life, brings out the best in you, and worst too. Love makes you feel good about almost everything around you, even if it's as common as your daily routine. It just gives you a feel that you just got your dearest of wishes come true, and even an atheist starts believing in god.

As they say, with every good time, comes bad time. It's about phases of our life, like a good phase, like a bad one that tails it. Good times normally last lesser compared to bad times. So is it the same deal with love too? Love which is supposed to be so perfect when we feel happiness is simply smitten to our souls, it still is a phase, a good one, which has to end and bring out the devil of unhappiness on us, which unfortunately pioneers the new kinds of unhappiness that we can possibly foresee. Heart is a fine tuned device that we humans carry in us and it is capable of handling all kind of emotions we can possibly throw at it. It is most commonly known for handling the emotion called "love" and for that it goes through a lot of wear and tear too.

Along with heart and love, come heartbreaks too. Now, as I said, with every good thing, there's always this bad thing waiting to show that nothing good in this world is forever. We have our share of heartbreaks. We curse, we blame, we even sometimes take our blame game to god almighty. But, are we really unhappy and do we really need to put blame on god or us for these heartbreaks? I can understand that ditched out of love can give us a lot of traumatic and depressive moments, it takes away the very nectar of happiness out of our lives, sometimes by force, sometimes by choice and sometimes simply by fate. Heartbreaks are painful, but the trust we have in our lord almighty, can restore the balance in our lives once again. I mean god can never really plan anything bad for us. Lets just keep that part for humans, but god can never do anything wrong to us.

We are our self-creators. We need to decide whether to rise up or keep ourselves at the ground where we are thrown after one such heartbreak. If I have to take it positively, I would say, heartbreaks actually bring the very best in us. They are capable of bringing the true spirits out of us that are possibly hidden or forgotten about! They can bring the potential of doing something wonderful and unimaginable that we probably have forgotten, we can do. We need to simply understand the fact that we have a long life, and we are the only ones who can either make the most out of it to lead it like a leader and set examples, or we can simply let this precious gift called life, wasted! 

Many of you have been through this terrible phase, but has life stopped after such an incident? I am sure it hasn't. I know you have risen out of this miserable phase; I know that you all have let your life move forward with a sense of grief and at the same time sense of achieving something even better. Some of you have accepted the fact like leader and some of you have simply voluntarily let go off your pain in order to make others happy. Some of you might have been cheated in love, some of you might have had to let go off your emotion because you wanted your lover's happiness. Some of you even forgot yourself in order to move ahead because you didn't want to end up like some miserable, pitiable form of living being. In all the cases, you have moved on, and have met with pretty wonderful opportunities that were waiting for you out there!!

If I have to sum it up, I would simply say that heartbreaks are not really a life killer, but they are simply a form of making us understand that life holds many opportunities for us and many potentials to be discovered! It brings the very best out of us, it helps us to understand that not everything that glitters is gold!! It helps us understand that life at every point of time will throw us in a dark hole, but if we keep looking down we will only be surrounded by misery, grief, pain and emptiness. All we have to do is we have to simply look up, because up there, theirs always a ray of hope, a ray of light shining upon us, and we need to choose whether to move to that direction or stay back and embrace darkness. I am a person who likes to see a glass half full and not half empty. Heartbreaks are indeed a blessing in disguise. I know nothing can replace the little pain we have inside but hey, we still have a beautiful god gifted life to lead, and road ahead will only hold positivity and happiness and love for us! 

Trust in god, Trust in yourself and love shall follow you again!! When the right time comes, the right person will fill your life and you shall overcome every bitter phase that you have been through! Always remember heartbreak is not the end of the world. There are many wonderful things to discover and many people who love you and many whom you love!