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Uncertainty

It irritates me. It angers me. It creates differences. It drifts everyone apart. It causes problems for everyone around me. I have the simplest of issues with it. Everyone does. I guess everyone would face the same hindrance, same feeling of being stuck in a claustrophobic room. What is this “It”? Nothing but the control, and the ego and the attitude of mine. It doesnt necessarily have to be anger as the primary cause, as it could be anything due to the fundamental reason being anxiety or uncertainty. I believe we all are living a life of uncertainty at one point in time or other. We as humans have a lot of desires and wishes, tangible or intangible. They tend to mess with our minds and they tend to make us do things, which we probably could have done without them, just fine. Off course, we need to make a living for ourselves, and that is the exact reason why we have to continue hustling for it and that is exactly the reason for our uncertainty. I have had my share of uncertainty, and
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Anger Management

Anger, now what exactly can anyone make of it? I personally think that there is nothing that anger cannot ruin. Well, silly me, who wouldnt agree on this one right? Now is anger really the culprit here? Are we not equally culprit, when we are cultivating this anger inside us, allowing this devil to creep inside us and giving away the key to literally rule our hearts and minds? I think we do all that I just wrote! I am sure that we are the owners of our own making, and if there is something that gets inside us, and if that thing has the power to overcome our faith and destiny by controlling our actions, making us his puppet, then, we are in some serious trouble, I would say! What is anger? I think its an extempore reaction of something that we do not like and we ourselves are sometimes aware that the reaction that we are making would probably land us into some adverse repurcussions! Why do we do something like that knowing the fact that it may cause serious trouble for us? I do not real
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New Age Marriage

In a country like India, marriage is a necessity than someone's personal choice! Like, how you would need a car for your day to day need, which is not considered to be a luxury but a necessity, similarly, marriage in my country is a necessity and not essentially luxury given to anyone to choose or not to choose whether to get married! Having said that it seems that every child, as soon as he/she is born and breathes the first polluted air of this universe, in my country, specially two things gets automated by the birth. 1) What is he/she is going to become when they grow up and 2) course it's marriage plans lurking inside the brains of the parents!  This is my story, I have had experienced all the pressure points of my body, when my parents have continued to force me to get married and settle down. Apparently nothing other than marriage means settling down with my family it seems! I guess most of you who are reading this would agree with me on this. I have had my fair sha
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Up's And Down's - A Story!

Life has it's own twists and turns. More of twists than the right turns we make. I am one classic example of gods good humor! So, why do I say that? Well, having working for more than 3 years with an organization, I suddenly realize that I am unable to cope up with the bullshit one throws at me and hence I suddenly make a decision to change my job, or rather quit my job without taking another job in hand. Big mistake! But, one only learns from the stupidest mistakes he makes in his life isn't it?  It felt like a good thing for me to change the job and also leave the current city I was in as at that time I felt that there was nothing left for me in this city! Again, why do I say that? As I said we tend to make the stupidest mistakes and learn from it! The city had nothing to do with my frustrations and disappointments. I was unnecessarily blaming the city for my own faults. It was my decision and my mistake to blame it on the beautiful city I lived in. Having said that, I anyway
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What Will People Say

Life as we all know it, keeps giving us harsh twists and realities that we are not ready to face! I fail to understand how life can always be so ready to pull us down. I guess it keeps forgetting, that we are not god and we really are not ready to face everything and still stand tall at all times.  Love, for example, is the sweet poison of life. You cant really live without it, and sometimes you really have nothing else but to be at the mercy of it. Humans, are after all, social animals, and they are always dependent on some or the other kind of togetherness and social beings. We are just not made to be alone, no matter how strong we think we are and no matter how much strong we want us to believe we are. But, does, the person you want to be with or love, necessarily become yours, always? I guess not. So Bam! The harsh reality hits you again! We fall in love, without really doing all the necessary checks, and like life, it does not come with instruction manuals. So half way t
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Writer's Block

Writers block. Isnt that suppose to be a temporary phase? While I suffer from temporary insanity of my spotless mind, i happen to feel that the eternal sunshine should shine as bright as it should be. I am now in the phase where my mind is overwhelmed with the facts of work, too many changes around me, an uncalled for fear, sometimes a feeling that grips my mind which is as scary as death. I feel am suddenly drained out of all the energy to feel the vibes and animosities that should have happened to me all the time. I know that writers block is a common phenomenon amongst us writers and bloggers, however I can't really figure out why am "I" suffering from it currently. I mean I don't have any brain damage out of some psychotic episode that would have happened in the past or in the present lately. Nevertheless I am suffering from it and that has caused all the delays of delivering some reading pieces for my readers and to an extent to myself as well. I somehow believe
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"Heartbreaks" Blessings In Disguise!

Once upon a time, love happened. Love happened to all of us. Almost all of us have been through this beautiful, absolute perfect feeling that God can bestow upon us. Love, probably has happened right from a tender age, has happened on the way leading life, or even when life was at the verge of ending its journey. Obviously depending on the various stages and circumstances life threw upon us. The point is, this love bee at one point of time has stung us all in our lives. It actually gives you the best of candid emotions your heart can toy with. It gives you the ride, the time of your life, brings out the best in you, and worst too. Love makes you feel good about almost everything around you, even if it's as common as your daily routine. It just gives you a feel that you just got your dearest of wishes come true, and even an atheist starts believing in god. As they say, with every good time, comes bad time. It's about phases of our life, like a good phase, like
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